This isn’t to say to be “juiciosa” is to be boring, but just that there are certain types of attributes and behaviors that Colombian men value in the women that they date.
It all depends on the relationship, but this is where clear communication and understanding comes into extreme importance.
Women are generally much more attentive and men are quite spoiled. After many late nights and bottles of wine sharing intimate discussions and comparing relationships and how it was like dating Colombian men, I’ve gathered a few conclusions. I’ve been in a happy relationship for 9 years now with a Colombian man myself. However, we ladies could say the same about our male counterparts. Sometimes it brings us together, other times it tears us apart.
But if they’re really into one person, they want her to be pendiente which literally translates to ‘pending’ or how I would like to translate: at their whim. Personal anecdote: I’m fortunate to have a boyfriend who puts up with my crazy hairstyles styles every couple of years.
Just ask the members of our staff or a translator to introduce you.
The office will be happy to arrange dates, and help you with planning your outings.
You have arrived in Colombia and have started to get to know some people here. and definitely don’t dress in normal “gringa attire” here – i.e.
As you meet a couple of Colombian men that you are interested in, you may find some differences between Colombian dating culture and your home country’s dating culture. flip flops, shorts, t-shirts – but I am not much of a fashionista.